Low Sexpectations

I am usually a very verbal person, especially in bed. Not to say that I am a big talker in the sack, but I consistently give some sort of feedback to my partner, and I have no qualms about making sure I ask for what I need. With Mike, for some reason, I am unable to open up to him about giving me what I need in bed. It's strange, really, and probably not in a good way. Tonight I did make sure he slowed down, but when I asked for some attention (as in, please recognize that I need you to acknowledge that I have a clitoris) he obliged for about 2 minutes. Even 2 minutes would have been nice, I think he was actually down there for about 50 seconds total. Wtf? He doesn't seem like he is clueless, but for some reason he just doesn't stay until the job is done. It's really quite frustrating. I'm also unaware of why I am so drawn to a guy who barely squeezes me into his (very busy) schedule, and then doesn't even really consider my needs in bed either. I am not a bad boy chaser, so why do I like a guy who is falling short of expectations?