Multiples

To be brutally honest I have been a very busy girl. As far as guys are concerned I have two notable ones floating around, and I am not sure what I am going to do with them both. In my own defense I will say that I am not a serial dater, but that neither of the guys has become so important that he warrants my dismissal of the other. As far as I'm concerned, they each have intriguing qualities, and I can't say for sure who I will wind up with. Here is the lowdown: The first guy, Mike, has been in the picture for about a month. He is a personal trainer, ex-marine, and has a fantastic body. We share lots of similar qualities. I really like him. At first, we talked on the phone for ridiculously long periods of time (as in my-phone-ran-out-of-battery long). I felt like someone else in this world was similarly quirky, and thought I had met my match. Unfortunately for both of us he lives REALLY far away and has a contradictory schedule to my own. I barely get to see him. Also, as well as we get along, he has yet to really prove himself to me in bed. Every time we have gotten down and dirty together I don't see any sincere attempt to make sure that I have an orgasm. Now, most women and clitoral, and I will say I am definitely part of that group. Most guys make at least some attempt to pay attention to that very important area of a woman, but not Mike. The thing is, I have yet to really discuss this with him, and therefore he cannot be held accountable for information that he has not yet received (though most guys do get the memo from previous experiences). Also, he is not rough enough, in general, to really make me think that he is the kind of guy to be the "as long as I get mine" type. He is a fantastic kisser, too. I will just have to see what happens once I talk to him. The second guy, Sam, is a teacher and a lyricist. I didn't expect to get along with him at first, but it is refreshing to be with a person who is very expressive. So expressive, in fact, that every moment in bed with him is accompanied by a narration of what is going on by Sam. Not dirty talk necessarily, but a running commentary worthy of romance novels. Never before Sam have I met a guy who talks as much, if not more, than me. Aside from all the verbiage, though, I never have to worry that I will be neglected in bed. He is very attentive, and I have had multiple orgasms with him. He is, as well, very well tended to by yours truly. Mutually satisfied partners, I would say. The thing with Sam is that we are from two very different cultures. He grew up on the South Side of Chicago and works in the music industry. I grew up on the North Shore and work in a "button-down and trousers" office. It will be interesting to see how compatible we are in the long run.