Extra Credit

My best friend and I were talking about Mike. She noticed that I give him quite a lot of wiggle room in areas I tend to not budge at all with guys. I never put up with guys who refuse to make time for me, or can't be bothered to call and see how I am, but Mike somehow gets away with it. He also gets away with being rather selfish in bed, which another sticking point for me (I actually have stopped, gotten dressed, and left on more than one guy who was too selfish in bed). Why is Mike special? I really can't figure it out. I think it's because I understand that where he is in life is transitional right now. He will be moving much closer to me, which will help the amount of time we can spend together. He will be changing jobs pretty soon, which will effect how much time off he has (right now he only is off Sundays, which are full of errands for him). I just can't say that he isn't trying, but it's obvious that there is very little room for me in his life. The bedroom stuff is something I have to really sit him down and talk to him about. I feel like something may be going on that I am not aware of, or he may really have not gotten the hints I have been dropping. I guess for now he is skating by of "ifs." Eventually he will either drag for so long he will lose his footing (and my infatuation with him), or he will find a way to include me in his life.