Monday, January 7, 2008

Marry Jerry?

I would say that Jerry (my long distance woulda-been-boyfriend) is slightly infatuated with me. By slightly, I mean he is fairly certain that I am the woman he will marry. He has informed me of his "3 year plan" before, but last night he hashed out every detail. I was on the phone with him for 2hrs, 43min, and 32sec (my phone was counting, not me). Needless to say, we talked about a lot of things. I really do like him as a person. We have similar levels of intellect, ambition, energy, and extroversion. There is definitely a lot of potential for major compatibility, but to make that decision when you are far away from a person who you have not spent long amounts of time with face to face seems a little strange to me. Granted, it is a big compliment, and I am very flattered. I would love for Jerry to be right: In a year and a half he will move back to Chicago and sweep me off my feet, we will fall madly in love with one another, and a year later he will marry me. Especially with all the ridiculous guys I have come across lately (one of these days I should write out my top 10 worst dates...they are truly hilarious) I would love to be able to settle down with a guy who is exciting, but comfortable, and truly loves being with me. If I will be single in a year and a half has yet to be determined. If it is truly meant to be it will happen. For now, I have to sort through everything around me.

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