Score 1 For The New Girl

Yesterday I found my phone ringing the whole time I was at work. Some private number kept calling my phone and not leaving a message. Finally, after work, I picked up when it popped up again. I happened to have been on the other line with Rafi. The woman on the line said she wanted to warn me about the guy I was seeing. Honestly I had no idea who she was referring to. Rafi and I had only spoken on the phone for a few days and had not yet been face to face for months. If I thought she was referring to anyone, I figured it was Allen. She said she was talking about Rafi, and that he had STDs, he was probably having unprotected sex with me, he is a player, and all sorts of strange accusations. Immediately I knew she was absolutely nuts. I have not even had the chance to think about having sex with Rafi, and I have yet to see if we are actually compatible. To get a hold of my number she would have to be able to access his phone, and Rafi's phone is the only thing that would reveal that he and I have been in contact. We certainly have not been seen out together. I called Rafi later on. I told him what happened. Apparently this woman is almost 40 years old and was a sexual partner of Rafi's almost a year ago. He made it clear from the start that he was not looking for a relationship, but she fell for him after a while. He realized that she was getting attached and asked her for space. She immediately started hacking into his phone records and calling all the numbers. Every woman that answered she would start with the onslaught of accusations. 3 women he dated before me received calls before the first date. Rafi set protected passwords, eliminated online access, and even changed his phone company, but it has done nothing. He even had a lawyer threaten her with legal action. I feel that there is very little about the situation that I can blame Rafi for. Crazy women are crazy on their own, and I am a fairly unflappable person. As far as Ilana is concerned (I know her name now), I can just answer the phone with "Ilana, every time you call me I am filing a police report. This is illegal." That should be enough of her. Rafi offered to tell me everything, and I told him that I think I have had enough of Ilana's fixation on him. I would rather spend time getting to know him than find out about her. Perhaps when we have gotten bored of each other Rafi can re-hash every detail...but I don't see that happening