To Blow, or Not to Blow

Oral sex is one of the things that is mostly performed for the pleasure of the other person. I feel like it is a very necessary part of sexual activity. For me, it is one of the only ways that I can reach orgasm. Men that refuse to perform oral sex often are not good sexual matches for me (see all posts on Mike for details). Because I need oral sex often, I know that I must return the favor. Frankly, I like all the little tricks that I have learned. Practice makes perfect, you know. I found out last year, however, that my mouth is about the size of a teenager (my dentist had been giving me the compact head toothbrushes on purpose). Unfortunately for me, that makes it quite painful to linger down there a long time or go very deep. My mouth is simply not sized for that. I have found other ways to make up for my shortcomings, and I do believe that every woman should still go down no matter what kind of "gag reflex" she thinks she has. One of my male friends actually married a woman who won't give head at all. Apparently she has tried in the past, but failed miserably. Now, it seems, he is obsessed with the idea of it. He talks about it constantly. It borders on absurd sometimes. If it was so important to him, why would he commit to a lifetime without it? It would be like me marrying Mike! What a dumb idea! It is really interesting to me to see the kind of effect it has on men when they know they won't get it. They say that prostitutes generally perform oral and anal sex the most since those are the things that men don't get from their wives. Sounds to me that without a little bit of head, men seem to lose theirs...