Apply a Coat of Perfect

No matter what I do I cannot seem to get it right. I wind up with a guy who is great emotionally, but cannot function in the working world (Chuck). I wind up with a guy who is creative and sexually compatible, but cannot follow through (Sam). I wind up with a guy who is everything that I would want in a man, but he lives across the universe (Jerry). Now I am with a guy who is great when I am with him, but is unable to make time for me (Rafi). I don't know anymore when to cut my losses. I am in a virtual headlock with Rafi. I feel like he doesn't give me the amount of attention I need, but he is definitely the type of person I am looking to wind up with in all other facets. He is creative. He is open emotionally. He is good in bed. He is spiritual. So how is it that I don't seem to find someone who is right on all points. Is perfect truly too much to ask for? Maybe I did something in a former life to deserve this...