The Best of the Best?

I am beginning to think that my best female friend is a bit more selfish than I expected. She has been ditching me and other girlfriends of hers for her boyfriend ever since they got together a few months ago. Now that our schedules are not in sync she becomes very distant and barely calls. One of her coworkers has become her new sidekick, and I believe that I am being phased out slowly. Unfortunately, since I now work on Sundays I could not wait until 1am when she decided to arrive at Crobar last night for her birthday. On less than 6 hours of sleep I simply cannot function during talent searches, so while I made the effort to come out and see her on her birthday there was little I could do when she arrived so late. Now I am getting the silent treatment. Ironically when I first met her I found her to be very mature. Lately I am beginning to see that her maturity is only an outward appearance. When I was getting out of my gynecologist appointment after getting cryo she promised to stay with me. My best guy friend came with me to the appointment, and also drove downtown afterwards to pick her up. Once we got back to the house she promptly left because "she promised her boyfriend's roommate that she would take his girlfriend to get her eyebrows waxed." I have never felt so annoyed in my life. My "best friend" is ditching me post-op because she is taking some girl she doesn't even like to get her eyebrows waxed just because he is a friend of her boyfriend? Seriously? How ridiculous is that? Since then it's kind of been downhill. I don't feel like she is capable of putting in the effort necessary to maintain a friendship with me. It is more convenient for her to replace me with someone else. I guess I can see now why I get along with men so much better. They don't have the same silly indulgences that girls do. It's exceptionally frustrating after having lost my last female friends due to their emotional immaturity. I can say for certain that I have no patience for people who don't correctly tend to the important things in life. At least this situation is coming to light at a time when I am not in an extraordinarily stressful place. I feel better equipped to deal with the stress.