Double Baked

It doesn't take a genius to figure out that I should have let Rafi be. Even though he said things he was doing needed to change that was not really what he was planning on working on. Last night we had another incident of supposed plans that were never resolved in the end. For some reason Rafi feels that when he is busy or tired he doesn't need to call anyone. Considering the events of last week I would have thought that he could have spent the effort to follow up for at least a week. Apparently not. I hate this back and forth. It's not so crazy to ask for a guy who is willing to expend the bare bones amount of effort involved in actually dating someone. That effort consists of calling back and actually going out in public with the other person. Rafi is clearly not that guy, twice over. If he was baked before, he is double baked now.