Thursday, June 19, 2008
The New Batch
So now that things have been wrapped up with all the old batch of guys I am diving headfirst into the new batch of boys. There are 4 or 5 of them around right now, and hopefully one of them will be worthy of becoming a real boyfriend. The first is a nice Jewish boy (in fact, they are all nice Jewish boys) who is a financial planner in the northern suburbs of Chicago. He is tall, cute, and easy to talk to. At first, he was pretty sure that he was headed for a career in professional baseball, but now he wears a collared shirt, and no cleats. His drawback, however, is that he is divorced with two small children. The ex-wife is catholic, so his girls are not Jews. Should the relationship progress, there could be issues with starting a Jewish family with a guy who has non-Jewish children. How do you explain to the kids why their half-sisters live by different rules? It's not a total loss, but it is definitely a worry. Obviously I should see if I really click with him first. The second is another Israeli guy who, unlike Rafi, takes me out on dates and actually likes to spend time with girls he is seriously dating. Talking to him is fine, but I have to consciously make sure that I use very simple vocabulary with him. What I really want is to be with a guy who is intellectually and sexually stimulating. This guy can only support 50% of the equation. The third guy is originally from Russia, but has lived here most of his life. He is awesome to talk to, and is very attractive. He works in web development, and has a great sense of humor. His drawback is only that he is about an inch shorter than I am. If I wind up with him, I will have to retire my heels from their regular rotation. The fourth is an extremely tall (6' 3") dirty blonde who lives in Ohio. He hails from South Africa (bonus points for a cute accent) originally, and is really looking to settle down. Working out the details of a long distance relationship, however, may be a little more stressful than I am really willing to deal with right now. His only chance will be that he is devastatingly handsome in person, and that I cannot think of anyone else. That is probably not going to be the case. The last guy is someone I had spoken with a bit the last time I had been on the dating website. There is only one picture on his profile. From what I can tell he is cute, but I cannot say for sure. I am also worried that he is a bit of a player, but I may meet him for a drink. If any strange behavior results I will be the first out of the bar. I promise. Until one of these guys rises to the top of the group I will see what possibilities there may be. Still holding true to the prior posts, though, I am waiting to have sex until I am in a committed monogamous relationship (thank you Patty Stanger).
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